Yep dinner were at 17:00 pm alike and there were like 22to 24 guests for grave has being finished traditional giving dinner stuff.  (I dislike these funeral period traditions, very tiresome.) 

yep dinner were traditional bakery of lahmacun bakery (this time not meal type meal) and its specific 2 salads and then drink were ayran mainly and cola and then the desert were some irmik desert type. 

after all guests has gone the first floor all very untidy and all were floor has like from lahmacun stuff (like its salad etc somehow that food some very untidily consumed and floors were a mess. 

so afterwards my mom even cleansed the armchairs since parsley/onions stuff even fell to arm chairs. then all first floor were very cleaned with mom and me then I thought why not clean second floor also since mom suggested lets clean second floor on tomorrow.  then i thought better do it today since i might not have to spare time on tomorrow. 

so been quite alot tiresome like day. been first started with -> preparing meal preparation, buying desert from desert shop in city then leaving mom to home then i rewent to city to buy flowers, as this event is for since grave is finished, (yes in our traditions the funeral happent house alot gets tired during this funeral period (constant dinners giving )and there is also this hmm at grave finished day such a dinner giving event like traditions exists. weirdly in our traditions, funeral giving house alot gets tiresome. e.g. in first week nearly every day there were meal giving period and like least 50 or 100 people in first day alike :S its quite tiresome traditions we have on funeral periods. )  so this were the last traditional meal giving event. its in next year in remembrance day e.g. remembrance is done as some donation etc and not expected dinner giving event )  so as yesterday grave site finished, yesterday we couldnot even wash grave (newly built and has had alot dust etc) since it were newly finished and today after leaving my mom to home I went back to city and bought flowers then went to grave site to wash grave first then place flowers to my dearest dad's grave. and spent some time there and then returned back home. then later constantly guests has started to come and then all day passed with event etc. and after event having have to clean 0th floor since were very unclean (there were even parsleys on floor/even armchairs |  so after all guests went as mentioned we cleansed even armchairs and floors etc etc very much. since even onion salad which has alot oil had partially fell. so since my mom during that suggested, 'then we can also cleanse second floor on tomorrow' then i thought myself, lets do it now then finished cleaning also second floor. then so alike.  Inewly had time to blog even. so day passed alike like this. some accomplishing tradition of funeral alike.  (yep we have very tiresome traditions for the funeral giving home) it were like first week were every day nearly giving meals like every day of funeral time. and today also such tradition of when grave is finished, its required to do such even on next day alike traditions. 

normally my mom i think would have had would do remembrance with giving donations but since there is such tradition, she wished to follow.  

but imho the funeral process has very tiresome traditions alike this. even more tiresome than e.g. wedding traditions. in wedding at least its one day right? i mean giving meal etc. and its not given in house either in wedding. but in funeral in first week there were all days giving meal alike. first day first in some outside place to 100 or alike people. then at home again giving meal to 100 alike people. second day i think it were 30 or alike people or 35 alike people at most. then consecutive days i think nearly all days of first week were constantly given meals to 30 people alike meals every day. so were quite tiresome. but also had some help from 2 relatives in this first week. but still i think quite alot tiresome traditions this funeral traditions alike. 

earlier traditions in funerals were nicer. in that -> outside people would bring meals to funeral home since for consideration of due to sadness that funeral having home might not be able to prepare meals alike logic. but in this new traditions -> the first big meals is given by family house usually like to 100 or whatso ever people much. then other days, other people give meals but in funeral house. so the funeral home people get tired of serving teas/dinner/ayran /desert.  so i thought I were saying, please no one ever give meal ever in first week, as people would call and say today I wish to give meal alike. the issue is that, the meal is served in our house. so we serve/tea/meal/dinner. then cleanse home afterwards every day alike. but those time there balcony were avail so the home were not that much getting untidy and only kitchen side would get very untidy. so cleaning home woujldnt be that much issue. but even serving meal/desert/ayran than many passes of tea /desert is very tiresome imho.  so i think in overall, we have very tiresome funeral traditions. I think earlier traditions were nicer. this funeral traditions we have is much much more tiresome than even wedding tradition. the least in wedding meal giving is once. and people do celebrate wedding a day only right? in this funeral topic, first week all days there were gathering/remembrance/mounring and meal giving alike.   i mean in original funeral tradition, guests dont stay in funeral house alot even ok? in ours case it were not any like that. but i wouldnt actually be complaining about it. since alot presence of relatives helped grief period pass if possible less sad. i mean i can not complain about it. since really were nice to be together sitting with all relatives all days nearly midnight drinking tea/remembrance/chatting , were really nice. since really helps grief topic to have relatives be present in such sad time. I mean i actually can not complain on the aspect that it helps actually to have alot people all chatting sitting doing remembrance in that days. but i would definitely say its also tiresome. so we have such traditions. in our traditions funerals is even more tiresome than even wedding days.  so this were the one other tradition day of which is expected to give meal. (on grave finished day alike) 

so of course I could not study to ml algos project yet today but would study now. since I think I already rested. (hmm had some coffee/washed my hair. and feeling rested even if day were quite tiresome alike)