yep we could do now add some strike through over traditions accomplishments for funeral's this event also. (giving dinner/meal on grave finished day)  (yep so our relatives has no topic to criticize us for missing any tradition of funeral events. since nearly all tradition events were accomplished. ) 

I think still feels helping psychology to be all relatives together that be sure, I mean such mourning/remembrance events are kind of good in that case of to help grief of loss. 

since last day we cried alot some. (since grave finished on last day late and it felt very sad to see grave alike. since i mean i dont know it were just very sad ) 

I guess they created these traditions in overall to help grief period. since e.g. yesterday we were very sad many times cried. but then today as all relatives  came to dinner event and gathering/chatting really helped to get over grief in such remembrance day again/event.